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March 10, 2021

Letting Kids Make Mistakes

There are benefits to our kids making mistakes, even when it’s hard. Maybe especially when it’s hard. We discuss how the brain learns from a mistake, the benefits of a “growth mindset,” and how we can make our homes mistake-friendly …

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March 8, 2021

Ask Amy- When Your Kids' Creative Projects Are Also Huge Messes

When it comes to child's play, the more self-directed and "fun" it is, the bigger of a mess it will probably make. But we don’t have to choose between our children’s unbridled creativity and our own sanity. Here’s how to …

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March 5, 2021

Fresh Take: Michelle Icard on the 14 Talks Parents Need To Have With …

Michelle Icard, author of FOURTEEN TALKS BY AGE FOURTEEN, says while tweens have begun "the necessary and difficult work of pulling away," they're still at an age where what we say has enormous impact. Here’s how to have those tough …

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March 3, 2021

When It's Okay To Be Emotional In Front of Our Kids

Kids shouldn’t have to hold our emotions for us, but is it OK for them to witness our sadness or loneliness? When is shower-crying the better bet, and when are our negative emotions safe for us to express? Can it …

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March 1, 2021

Ask Margaret - How Should I Talk to My Child's Caregiver About Discip…

A listener asks how to get on the same page as her nanny when it comes to disciplining her child.

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Feb. 24, 2021

Extremely Achievable Family Traditions

What are some little things we can lean on right now to create more joy and meaning for our families? We asked for ideas, and we’re talking LITTLE. Preferably free. Not exhausting. Super fun. Lifetime of memories. Here are some …

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Feb. 22, 2021

Ask Amy- Should I Be Worried About My Teen's Isolation?

When is a teen happily isolated– or at least content– and when is it something a parent should be concerned about, particularly during the pandemic?

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Feb. 17, 2021

Moms Are Not Okay

As we come up on the one-year anniversary of a crisis we thought would take a couple of weeks, let's face it: all of us moms are falling apart. How’s it going at our houses? Not great. But here’s what …

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Feb. 15, 2021

Ask Margaret - Do I Get a Say On Who My Kids' Friends Are?

How much input should we have on our kids' choices of friends? What happens when we don't like the friends our kid is choosing?

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Feb. 12, 2021

BEST OF: Anger Management for Kids

The best way to handle our children’s anger is to equip them with the tools to handle it themselves. Whether your kid is 4 or 14, here’s how to stand outside the storm and get your calm back a little …

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Feb. 10, 2021

Setting Boundaries

Boundaries aren’t just for relationships that have already been damaged. Healthy boundaries with our partners, friends, and extended family are what make long-term relationships possible. Here’s how to set boundaries early and often.

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Feb. 8, 2021

Ask Amy- Surviving The "Only Mommy" Phase

A toddler's "only mommy" phase is just that. It's temporary. But it's a struggle for Mom nonetheless, even if her toddler's devotion is adorable. Here's how to get through it.

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Feb. 5, 2021

Fresh Take: Dr. Harold Koplewicz on the Best Way To Support Our Kids

Parents shouldn’t be the architects of their children’s lives. Or the builders. Dr. Harold Koplewicz, author of THE SCAFFOLD EFFECT: Raising Resilient, Self-Reliant and Secure Kids in an Age of Anxiety, tells us how best to support our kids’ growth.

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Feb. 3, 2021

The Things We're Never Going Back To

This pandemic situation has not been great. But there are things we have been freed from and are hereby declaring we’ll never do, or wear, or worry about again. Here’s what we (and our listeners) are, with great determination, never …

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Feb. 1, 2021

Ask Margaret - Talking to Kids About Death

A listener asks how to help a child asking anxious questions after his classmate's parent died.

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Jan. 29, 2021

Fresh Take: Dr. Christine Koh On Building a Family After Adverse Chil…

Dr. Christine Koh creates content to help people live better and happier. She also grew up with adverse childhood experiences. We discuss the CDC ACEs framework for understanding early adversity, and how to go on and build happy families of …

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Jan. 27, 2021

How To Stop Having The Same Fight

Having the same fight doesn’t mean your relationship is broken. But it is totally annoying. Here are the modes of negativity that are at work when we repeat the same conflicts- and what we can do to break the cycle, …

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Jan. 25, 2021

Ask Amy: When Your Kid is Super-Clingy

A parent asks for advice on dealing with a clingy 9-year-old. Amy suggests rewarding small shows of independence with praise, and offering quality time during your child’s preferred activity in return for accepting some time apart without complaint.

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Jan. 22, 2021

Fresh Take: Dr. Edward Hallowell on the Newest Science and Essential …

Dr. Edward Hallowell, co-author of ADHD 2.0: New Science and Essential Strategies for Thriving with Distraction--From Childhood Through Adulthood, explains the growing understanding of ADHD- and offers new hacks for brains with “variable attention.”

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Jan. 20, 2021

Okay, We Annoy Ourselves Also

We often express righteous anger at all the completely infuriating and totally trivial things that other people, usually related to us, do to annoy us. Today we look inward– and admit the things we do that are so irksome that …

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Jan. 18, 2021

Ask Margaret - How To Turn Off Screens Without Tears

A listener asks how to help her child regulate the strong emotions that arise whenever it's time for screens to go off.

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Jan. 15, 2021

Fresh Take: Mirna Valerio Tells Us How To Find Our Fitness

Mirna Valerio is a runner, adventurer, speaker, and anti-racism educator. We discuss her experiences as a larger woman in a world of endurance athletes, and how to reacquaint ourselves with fitness, no matter how long we’ve been out of the …

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Jan. 13, 2021

The Mom That Covid Has Made Me

How has Covid affected you as a mom? Are you more socially anxious? Have you found the isolation sort of reassuring? Are you at your breaking point? Are you treasuring the extra time with your kids? Will any of this …

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Jan. 11, 2021

Ask Amy - My Kid Thinks There Are Monsters Under The Bed

How can we deal with the monsters-under-the-bed phase? For kids who still believe in magical things as fully possible, the best "protection" we can offer them from something scary but imaginary might be something equally unreal and totally wonderful.

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